By Jordyn Nesbitt
Editor’s Note:
As part of my commitment to uplifting the next generation of leaders, I’m proud to share the reflections of students like Jordyn Nesbitt. Her journey at the AAMA Conference is a powerful reminder of how exposure, encouragement, and opportunity can shape a young leader’s future. Jordyn is also the 2025 winner of the Prince William County Alumnae Chapter of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc.'s Martin Luther King Jr. Oratorical Contest—another testament to her leadership, voice, and vision. It’s stories like hers that fuel the work we do, and I hope it inspires more students to step into their potential.
– Mayor Derrick Wood
Attending the African American Mayors Association (AAMA) conference was a truly transformative experience for me.
The most impactful moment was Mayor Eric Adams’ speech, which resonated deeply with me. His story about his mother and the importance of defining your own story is something that I’ll never forget. His words taught me a valuable lesson:
There will always be people who try to discredit you or refuse to see you—but you must define yourself.
Especially in today’s climate, it’s so important to know who you are, because those who don’t want to see you will always try to rewrite the truth.
As I listened to the stories shared by various mayors, I realized that the journey to achieving your career goals isn’t always linear. I aspire to be a criminal defense attorney, and the narratives of these leaders showed me that success doesn’t always follow a straight path. It inspired me to embrace my unique journey and stay open to new opportunities instead of trying to follow a script.
Winning the Washington-Rosenwald HBCU Scholarship was a tremendous honor that broadened my perspective. It not only gave me insight into the historical relationship between the Jewish and African American communities—something I hadn’t previously understood—but it also gave me the opportunity to attend the AAMA conference.
The networking opportunities with mayors and industry professionals were invaluable. It opened doors I didn’t even know existed and helped expand my understanding of leadership and service.
If I could offer one piece of advice to students who might feel hesitant about applying for scholarships or attending conferences, it would be this: Just do it.
It may feel intimidating at first, but on the other side of that fear are once-in-a-lifetime connections and moments that could shape your future.
I am especially grateful to Mayor Wood for recommending this scholarship to me. I believe he would be a fantastic mentor for young people interested in leadership or public service because he champions individuals—recognizing their skills, helping them grow, and opening doors for young leaders to thrive.
One lasting lesson I’m taking with me from this experience is:
Everyone starts somewhere.
It’s easy to feel embarrassed or defeated when things don’t happen immediately, but that mindset can block growth. Being open to learning, making mistakes, and embracing your starting point is something that will stay with me for years.
If you’re looking for scholarship opportunities or a chance to expand your network, I highly encourage you to apply next year.
You never know what incredible opportunities you might be missing out on.
I encourage you to connect with me about any questions, suggestions, or feedback you may have. Your perspective is vital in creating a thriving Dumfries. Let’s work hand in hand to ensure our town continues to flourish.